We are excited to announce that My Days with Emma: A Soulful Path to Elderhood was published on January 21, 2023 in paperback and e-format. Available for purchase on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. Stay tuned for the Audio book launch!

A bit about EMMA – It’s simply not true! Your aging does not mandate rounds of golf and martinis, while staying out of the way of progress. Loss does not have to be the most salient aspect of aging. If you allow the years to be instructive, valuable insight can be passed on. As you are not so preoccupied with achieving worldly pursuits, your inner world becomes more accessible. What you have learned and what you can teach become unequivocal.

This text offers a touching and edifying portrayal of the author being mentored into elderhood. He is introduced to elderhood with its appropriate trials and ordeals. The Power of Being becomes a new way to see himself and life, releasing him from the need to prove something.

My Days with Emma – A Soulful Path to Elderhood offers readers a blueprint for being a valued resource while aging. Find out how your maturity can be a worthy way to serve in the winter of your life, yielding a rich legacy.


Paul’s next book will be available in late 2023

The Family: In Search for Genuine Belonging is Paul’s seminal work, culminating 40 years of professional experience.


Work with Paul In Switzerland: April 2024

Paul is scheduled to co-facilitate the Next Practice Institute’s The Maturing Masculine program on April 8-12 in Lenzerheide, Switzerland. Paul will be collaborating with Senior Transformational Faculty members Paul Zonneveld and Thomas Halbeisen.

About The Maturing Masculine:

The world needs deeply matured men – as fathers, husbands, friends, and leaders in pivotal roles in business and society. Men who can stand their ground without being arrogant. Men who listen deeply, act in service of a cause greater than themselves and pass on wisdom to the next generation. Such men live life on fate’s terms. They stand for blessing and order. They are both strong and vulnerable. They are also men who can hold and bring to life the feminine in themselves and others. They are men rooted in their full essence.

During this 4-day retreat, we will jointly discover and invigorate our integrity, authenticity, curiosity, courage, and compassion. The invitation is to welcome and integrate more of your soul and embrace all archetypes of the mature masculine –to consciously continue and deepen your initiation into being a man and an executive in today’s world.

To initiate the next level of maturity, meaning, and sense-making, we will employ storytelling, meditation, journaling, art, presentation, discussion, ceremony, and ritual. Men can be of great support to one another in these transitions. Together, we will re-interpret and use ritual in a community of men to mature together in what life is asking of us now.

 Registration link will be offered closer to the event.





“When you know who you want to be at your death, you’ll know who you want to be in your life.”